We often blog about tips for interviews, resumes, and job searching. Thoughtful consideration should go into each of these areas as part of your job hunting plan of attack. What happens though when that interview doesn’t do as planned and you don’t get the job?
Firstly, don’t beat yourself up asking “What’s wrong with me?” Instead of drowning your sorrows with day-time reruns and a pint of Ben and Jerry’s, try reflecting on the interview while it’s still fresh in your mind.
The down-time after an interview is the perfect time to sit back and reflect on the interview and brainstorm a list of the highs and lows of the interview. First, visualize the whole interview, from handshake to exiting the building, in your mind. Write out distinct pros and cons in a list format and focus on prioritizing the list with the items of greatest importance first.
Step back. Read your list. Most likely they areas you felt you didn’t do so well on fall within one of these areas:
1.) Poor Point of Contact – Did you arrive late to your interview, give a dead fish handshake or forget names of those interviewing you?
A poor point of contact can leave a bad taste in any employer’s mouth so make sure you are comfortable with this first step to a good interview. Your handshake is your first impression. Tip: If you’re uncomfortable with handshakes or introductions then practice beforehand.
It’s also important to review the names of those interviewing you. If you’re like any driven job seeker, you’ve probably had several interviews within weeks of each other and names can easily be mixed up. Tip: To avoid this go online to the prospective employer’s website and look up staff pictures to match faces to names before you meet them.
2.) Appearance- Did you look the part?
We’ve blogged about appearance before, it’s crucial in an interview to look the part Remember you should look put together, well rested, and alert, have great posture, and most of all – appropriate dressed. Tip: Do a preflight check before you leave the house for your interview to make sure you’re looking sharp
3.) Language- Did you use confusing language, colloquialisms, jargon or slang?
When you have great momentum going in an interview the tone can easily slip from professional to relaxed but don’t be fooled, it’s still an interview. It’s of upmost importance that you don’t use colloquialisms, jargon or slang. If your interviewer doesn’t understand the jargon or slang you are using you may unintentionally be talking over their head. Tip: Even though you may find the words “chillax” and “defriended” in the dictionary doesn’t mean you have to use them.
4.) Listening- Did you really listen to what they had to say?
Some employers like to use a more conversational interview technique than question and answer. This means you need to be on your toes at all times and listen to possible hidden questions. If you incorrectly answer a question with an answer that is unrelated, it will show that you didn’t hear the question. Tip: Pay attention at all times and don’t allow your mind to wander.
5.) Speaking- Did you talk too much, too little, too fast?
If you’re like 99% of job seekers, you probably get a little nervous before an interview. Be sure to moderate your pace and cadence of speech if you’re nervous so you don’t end up speaking too quickly. Also, be sure not to talk too much. You want to let your prospective employer get in all the questions they may have for you in the time allotted for your interview. Tip: When you answer a question try pausing for a second before answering. Doing this shows you’ve given the question consideration before responding.
6.) Attitude – Did your attitude say you were engaged, energetic and interested?
Any astute interviewer can read an attitude. Be sure you are engaged, alert and energetic. If you’re having any problems before the interview be sure to leave them at the door. The last thing you want is for the interviewer to remember you as less than enthused. Show interest and be genuine in your answers. Tip: Leave plenty of time to get to your destination and take five minutes before the interview to simply find a good mindset.
Keep a log of your post-interview pro/con lists for review. After each job interview it’s a good idea to reflect upon areas of weakness to track your improvement.
Once you’ve identified the areas that may be on your “con” list from your interview it’s easier to improve on areas to work on for your next interview. Instead of wondering why you didn’t get the job and wishing you got a call back–do something!